What are your excuses for not travelling Solo? Here is how Solo Travel has changed for me for last few years
These days I am in my village with my parents and the weekend is coming. During morning walk, I was thinking of going to Mandi town on Saturday and then thought that probably I should plan the visit to town when Vibha is also here. Then I questioned myself about why there can’t be another visit to Mandi with Vibha, when she is around and why am I waiting for that moment, even when I have time on this Saturday. This though made me think more and I realised that for a long time, I haven’t really travelled alone and most of the times, I dont even want to be in bigger groups to travel.
There used to be time when I used to brag that I don’t waste my weekends and go to nearby places whenver get chance. During those years, I never waited for someone to make a plan with me neither I convinced anyone to come along. I have had great time during those trips, so why it has changed now?
I think there are different factors and reasons, which can be unique for all of us. My recent execuse if Pandemic :). I have become too lazy after these 2.5 years of pandemic. During the weekends I want to just relax and laze around. When there are some long weekends, they don’t align with Vibha’s schedule and over the time we realised that it gets harder to align our schedules. Why did I reach here? Am I trying to establish that there are external reasons which are stopping me to travel? :) .
The other reality is that I am too concious about the weather now. I only prefer to go to places during the seasons/time, when weather is pleasant. And in Indian context that’s a big deterrent. But really? I don’t thik so. There are always plenty of places to go to in every season/month.
There are many other reasons which I don’t want to mention in public, but end of the day I need to manage all of them and travel, if I really want to do so.
The other reason I give myself is that whenever I have holidays/weekends, I need to take care of household chores for ourselves and parents. But really? What’s the frequency? How many times I have to do that.
Anyways, this blogpost is probably a reminder to myself about using my free time well. Even if I want to relax, that’s ok and don’t compare the value of relaxing with the joy of travelling. Both are important and one can’t compensate for the other. So it’s about being aware of time you have and how you want to spend.
Now circling back to Solo travel. Over time, I don’t enjoy Solo travel and don’t want to associate any reason to it. I like to travel with like minded people and the one who always aligns well with my travel stye of Vibha and hope we get back to travel with better plans soon. Having said that I should be open for solo travel as well, because my travel can’t be dependent on others and if I have time & desire, I should step out and travel.